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Signs of ADHD in Children That Parents Often Miss

ADHD is more than hyperactivity. The signs of inattention, impulsivity and restlessness parents often miss — and how ADHD is assessed.

Signs of ADHD in Children That Parents Often Miss

Not every child with ADHD runs around the classroom. Many — especially girls — are quietly inattentive, daydreaming and forgetting instructions. They are often labelled “careless” or “lazy” when they are struggling with a brain-based condition.

What ADHD looks like

Inattention

  • Careless mistakes and unfinished homework
  • Seems not to listen when spoken to
  • Loses books, bottles and stationery
  • Easily distracted

Hyperactivity

  • Fidgets or leaves the seat
  • Runs or climbs at the wrong times
  • Talks non-stop

Impulsivity

  • Blurts out answers
  • Can’t wait for a turn
  • Interrupts others

Signs parents often miss

  • Homework that should take 30 minutes takes three hours.
  • Teachers say the child is bright but “never pays attention”.
  • Frequent daydreaming and forgetting what was just said.
  • Emotional outbursts and low frustration tolerance.

What causes ADHD?

ADHD is mainly genetic (it is 70–80% inherited) and involves differences in the brain areas that control attention and self-control. Poor parenting and sugar do not cause ADHD.

How ADHD is assessed

A complete assessment includes parent and teacher rating scales, attention tests and IQ or learning screening to rule out other causes. Treatment includes behaviour therapy, parent training, classroom strategies and, where needed, a psychiatric referral.

Frequently asked questions

At what age can ADHD be diagnosed?

ADHD is usually diagnosed from around age 6, once school demands make attention difficulties clearer, although signs may be noticed earlier.

Is every active child hyperactive?

No. Many children are energetic. ADHD is considered when inattention or hyperactivity is persistent, present in more than one setting and affects learning or relationships.

How is ADHD assessed at Mind Detox Centre?

Through a clinical interview with parents and child, standardised rating scales, and where needed IQ and learning assessments to rule out other causes.

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If this article sounds familiar, you don’t have to work it out alone. Book a confidential session with Dr. Rabya Umman at Vasant Kunj, New Friends Colony or online.

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