Month: September 2026

World Suicide Prevention Day 2026: Signs, Myths & Help

  World Suicide Prevention Day falls on the 10th of September every year, and in 2026 its theme is “Changing the Narrative on Suicide” — a call to replace silence and stigma with honest, compassionate conversation. As a clinical psychologist who has spent over 13 years working with people in crisis, I want to use this day to share what the evidence actually says: about the scale of the problem, the myths that keep people from seeking help, the warning signs worth taking seriously, and what a psychologist’s role really looks like in prevention. What Is World Suicide Prevention Day? World Suicide Prevention Day is observed every 10th September, established by the International Association for Suicide Prevention (IASP) and supported by the World Health Organization (WHO). The 2026 theme, “Changing the Narrative on Suicide,” is the final year of a three-year focus (2024–2026) aimed at challenging harmful myths, reducing stigma, and encouraging open dialogue — a “Start the Conversation” call to action for individuals, families, workplaces, and governments alike. The Numbers: What WHO’s Data Tells Us According to the World Health Organization, more than 720,000 people die by suicide every year worldwide — and many more attempt it. Suicide is the third leading cause of death among 15–29-year-olds globally, making it a leading contributor to preventable death in young people specifically. Roughly 73% of global suicides occur in low- and middle-income countries, which reflects, in part, how limited access to mental health care and continued stigma shape outcomes. These are not just statistics — each figure represents a person, a family, and very often, a preventable tragedy. Common Myths About Suicide — And the Facts Changing the narrative starts with correcting what most people get wrong. These are the myths I hear most often in my clinic: Myth: “Asking someone if they’re suicidal will put the idea in their head.” Fact: Research consistently shows the opposite. Asking directly and calmly does not increase risk — it often brings relief, because it opens a door the person may have been too afraid to open themselves. Myth: “People who talk about it don’t actually do it.” Fact: Most people who die by suicide have shown warning signs beforehand, including talking about it. Every mention should be taken seriously, not dismissed as attention-seeking. Myth: “Suicide only affects people with a diagnosed mental illness.” Fact: While mental health conditions, especially depression and alcohol use disorders, are significant risk factors, suicide can also affect people going through acute life crises — grief, financial collapse, relationship breakdown — without any prior diagnosis. Myth: “If someone is determined to end their life, nothing can stop them.” Fact: Suicidal crises are frequently short-lived and situational. Timely support, restricting access to means, and professional care save lives far more often than fatalism assumes. Warning Signs Worth Taking Seriously No single sign confirms risk, and not everyone shows obvious signs — but these patterns are worth taking seriously, especially in combination: Talking about wanting to die, feeling like a burden, or having no reason to live Withdrawing from family, friends, or activities they once enjoyed Giving away possessions, saying goodbye, or getting affairs in order Marked changes in sleep, appetite, or mood — including a sudden, unexplained calm after a period of depression Increased use of alcohol or drugs Expressions of hopelessness or being trapped, with no way out If you notice several of these signs together, especially after a significant loss or life crisis, it is time to reach out — to them, and to a professional. Risk Factors and Protective Factors The WHO identifies several factors that raise vulnerability: mental health conditions (particularly depression and alcohol use disorders), a previous suicide attempt, exposure to violence, abuse, or conflict, major life crises such as financial loss or relationship breakdown, and social isolation — with additional vulnerability among refugees, migrants, indigenous communities, LGBTI individuals, and people in custodial settings. Protective factors matter just as much: strong, supportive relationships, a sense of belonging and purpose, access to mental health care, healthy coping and problem-solving skills, and cultural or personal beliefs that discourage suicide while supporting help-seeking. The Role of a Clinical Psychologist in Suicide Prevention This is where my own work comes in, and it looks quite different from how it’s often portrayed. A clinical psychologist’s role in suicide prevention typically includes several distinct pieces. Risk assessment. Rather than trying to “predict” suicide with a checklist, modern clinical practice — as described in guidance for assessment and intervention with at-risk patients — focuses on understanding a person’s specific drivers of distress, their current supports, and their access to means, to build an accurate, individualised picture of risk. Safety planning. Together with the client, we build a concrete, personalised plan: recognising their own warning signs, identifying coping strategies, listing people and professionals they can contact, and reducing access to means during high-risk periods. This collaborative approach is one of the most evidence-supported tools in suicide prevention. Treating the underlying condition. Depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, and chronic relational distress are frequently the real engines behind suicidal thoughts. Evidence-based therapy — addressing the cause, not just the crisis — is central to long-term prevention, not just short-term safety. Postvention support. Psychologists also support families and communities after a suicide loss, helping survivors process grief that is often complicated by guilt, stigma, and unanswered questions. Building resilience before crisis hits. A large part of prevention is proactive: helping people build the emotional regulation, communication, and problem-solving skills that make future crises less likely to escalate — which is exactly why early, ongoing mental health support matters, not only crisis intervention. How to Talk to Someone You’re Worried About If you’re worried about someone, the most useful thing you can do is ask directly, calmly, and without judgment: “I’ve noticed you haven’t seemed like yourself — are you having thoughts of suicide?” Listen without trying to fix everything in that moment. Avoid arguing, minimising (“but you have so much to live for”), or reacting with
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Emotional Intelligence in Marriage: 10 Tips for a Happy Married Life

Emotional intelligence in marriage is the single most underrated skill that separates couples who grow closer over the years from couples who slowly drift apart. In 13 years of working with married couples in my clinic, I have seen the same pattern again and again: it is rarely a lack of love that breaks a marriage — it is a lack of emotional skill. Partners who never learned how to name, regulate, and respond to emotions end up hurting the very person they love the most. The good news is that emotional intelligence, unlike personality, is a learnable skill. In this guide, I will walk you through what this skill actually means for couples, why it matters so much for long-term marital success, and ten practical, therapist-approved tips you can start using in your relationship today. 1. What Is Emotional Intelligence in Marriage? Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is the ability to recognise, understand, and manage your own emotions while also recognising and responding wisely to your partner’s emotions. Psychologist Daniel Goleman described five core components of emotional intelligence: self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills, as explained in this detailed breakdown by Medical News Today. Applied to marriage, emotional intelligence looks like this: noticing you are getting defensive before you snap at your spouse, understanding why your partner’s tone hurt you, and choosing a calm response instead of a reactive one. It is not about suppressing feelings. It is about managing them so they bring you closer instead of pushing you apart. Emotionally intelligent couples do not fight less — every couple disagrees. They simply repair faster, listen better, and never let a disagreement turn into contempt. 2. Why Emotional Intelligence Matters for a Successful Married Life Research consistently backs up what I see in my clinic every week. A comparative study published on PubMed found a strong, direct relationship between emotional intelligence and marital satisfaction — couples with higher EQ reported significantly greater happiness in their marriage. The Gottman Institute, one of the world’s leading relationship research bodies, has also found that emotionally intelligent partners are far more likely to build lasting, satisfying marriages, because they know how to accept influence from their spouse and de-escalate conflict. In simple terms: emotional intelligence in marriage is not a “soft skill.” It is a protective factor that reduces resentment, prevents small issues from becoming big ones, and builds the trust that every successful married life is built on. 3. Five Common Mistakes That Sabotage Emotional Intelligence Even loving partners fall into a few predictable traps that quietly damage emotional connection. Recognising these patterns is often the fastest way to reverse them. Mind-reading instead of asking. Assuming you know why your partner is upset — “You’re only saying that because you’re still angry about last week” — shuts down real conversation before it starts. Ask instead of assuming. Keeping score. Bringing up old arguments during a new one (“You did the same thing in 2019”) floods the conversation with unrelated hurt and makes the current issue impossible to resolve. Withdrawing instead of repairing. Stonewalling — going silent and emotionally shutting your partner out — feels safer in the moment but is one of the strongest predictors of long-term marital dissatisfaction identified by relationship researchers. Confusing venting with communicating. Expressing frustration is healthy; using it to punish your partner is not. The goal of sharing an emotion is always resolution, not retaliation. High Expectation: Expectation from partner is not wrong, but high expectation can make it difficult to your relationships In my clinical experience with couples across Delhi and beyond, these four patterns show up in almost every relationship I work with — and every one of them softens once both partners commit to building real emotional intelligence together. 4. 10 Practical Tips to Improve Emotional Intelligence in Marriage These are the exact strategies I teach couples in psychotherapy session. Start with one or two — this skill builds gradually, not overnight. 1. Practice Active, Nonjudgmental Listening. Most spouses listen to reply, not to understand. Active listening means putting your phone down, facing your partner, and reflecting back what you heard before you respond. Try saying, “What I’m hearing is you felt ignored when I was on my phone — is that right?” This single habit resolves more conflict than any argument ever will. 2. Name Your Emotions Before You React Self-awareness is the foundation of emotional intelligence. Before reacting to your partner, pause and silently label what you are actually feeling — hurt, embarrassed, tired, anxious — rather than just “angry.” Naming the real emotion underneath the anger stops you from lashing out over something smaller than the real issue. 3. Learn Your Partner’s Emotional Triggers Every partner carries emotional sensitivities shaped by their past — childhood experiences, previous relationships, or personal insecurities. Ask your spouse directly: “What makes you feel most hurt or disrespected?” Understanding these triggers helps you avoid unnecessary wounds and respond with more compassion when they do get activated. 4. Practice Empathy Instead of Defensiveness Empathy means trying to feel what your partner feels, even when you disagree with their point of view. Instead of defending yourself the moment you feel criticised, ask yourself: “Why might this matter so much to them?” Empathy de-escalates conflict faster than any argument you could win. 5. Master the Pause Before You Respond When emotions run high, the body enters a stress response and rational thinking shuts down — therapists call this “flooding.” If you notice your heart racing or your voice rising, say, “I need ten minutes before we continue,” and step away. This pause is one of the most powerful self-regulation tools I teach couples, because it prevents words said in anger that can’t be unsaid. 6. Take Responsibility for Your Emotional Reactions Emotionally intelligent partners own their reactions instead of saying, “You made me angry.” A more accurate and productive statement is, “I felt angry when that happened.” This small shift in language removes blame from the conversation
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